Agastya on Psychology 101
Lila was messing up Agastya's train track with her toys. She put them all around his track so his train can't go. On cue, he's obviously upset and starts yelling at her.
Agastya: Lila! Tidy up your toys!
Lila: No!
Agastya: That's a BAD girl! I am not going to clean up for you. I am the one who always tidy up! Now tidy up otherwise I won't be your brother!
Lila: NO! I don't want to!
Agastya: (increasingly getting louder) LILA!!! I want you to tidy up your toys NOW!!!
Lila: NO!!!!!
Agastya: *sigh, then suddenly changed his tone to very nice and soft* Lila, if you pick up your toys, then you're a good girl. Are you a good girl?
Lila: No.
Agastya: *still with nice tone* Such a good girl, Lila. Are you going to help me pick up your toys?
Lila: *picking up her toys and put it in her basket. Then look at Agastya for confirmation*
Agastya: Wow, Lila! Very good! Look mommy Lila is a good girl!!
Lila: *is happy and pick more of her toys up now*
Somehow I think he'd have no problem handling her.
Sometimes I wish I have instant replay and record button on life (like they do in Sky+) so that I can watch it again and again. I guess recording it on this blog has to suffice.
Especially when Lila does cute short thing unrepeatable, such as putting her hands to close her own eyes and say "Taa daa!!! I DISAPPEARED!"
Agastya: Lila! Tidy up your toys!
Lila: No!
Agastya: That's a BAD girl! I am not going to clean up for you. I am the one who always tidy up! Now tidy up otherwise I won't be your brother!
Lila: NO! I don't want to!
Agastya: (increasingly getting louder) LILA!!! I want you to tidy up your toys NOW!!!
Lila: NO!!!!!
Agastya: *sigh, then suddenly changed his tone to very nice and soft* Lila, if you pick up your toys, then you're a good girl. Are you a good girl?
Lila: No.
Agastya: *still with nice tone* Such a good girl, Lila. Are you going to help me pick up your toys?
Lila: *picking up her toys and put it in her basket. Then look at Agastya for confirmation*
Agastya: Wow, Lila! Very good! Look mommy Lila is a good girl!!
Lila: *is happy and pick more of her toys up now*
Somehow I think he'd have no problem handling her.
Sometimes I wish I have instant replay and record button on life (like they do in Sky+) so that I can watch it again and again. I guess recording it on this blog has to suffice.
Especially when Lila does cute short thing unrepeatable, such as putting her hands to close her own eyes and say "Taa daa!!! I DISAPPEARED!"

